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My Great Grandfather

My Great Grandfather had a massive heart attack and died this morning, aged 81. He had been married to Nan for 54 years. She was devastated when I spoke to her earlier.

Honestly? I don’t think it has sunk in yet. I feel a bit numb still, even though I have been processing it for hours.
We had a brilliant Christmas here. Nan and Pop brought up loads of meat and Pop wouldn’t take no for an answer when he gave me all the leftovers to keep.

Nan and Pop

He joined in the cricket game and bowled like a champion. He even had a bat as well. For a man that was blind in one eye, he played a mean game of cricket.

Cricket

He would probably hate this photo of himself, but it captured the spirit of the day.

Thankyou Pop for the wonderful memories, for showing me where to find the best raspberries when I was a kid, letting me eat all the black currants off the bush and laughing when I ate the jam cherries.

Thankyou for the black currant bush that you grew especially for me. I plan to take it with me when I move.

Thankyou for everything. You will be horribly missed.

Love Veronica, Nathan and Amy.

Pop

We love you.

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  1. Jenty says

    I’m so sorry for your loss. May he rest in peace.

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  2. frogpondsrock says

    I love you Pumpkin… xoxoxox

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  3. Karen (Misc Mum) says

    I’m so sorry xxxxxxxx

    Karen (Misc Mum)’s last blog post..Uh-oh

  4. Turner Family says

    We are so sorry to hear about your loss all our thoughts and prayers are with you and all your family at this sad time.
    Love Mark Anne Adam and Charlene

  5. Bettina says

    I’m so sorry for your loss. My prayers for comfort and peace for you and your family at this time.

    Bettina’s last blog post..Carrot greetings

  6. Kelley says

    Hugs babe.

    I never met my great grandparents. So wonderful that your got to meet Amy.

    As I said to your mum, the pain will pass. And that photo of your GG father bowling is priceless.

    Kelley’s last blog post..Rule 34 and Clinkers

  7. Taz says

    aww..

    big hugs hun..

    so sorry to hear of his passing..

    thinking of you..

  8. maiden53 says

    V- You really are so very lucky to have had him in your life… all of the precious memeories that you get to keep forever! I am glad that you have the bush to take with you to your new home – it will be like he is there, too.

    maiden53′s last blog post..Life IS Good

  9. witchypoo says

    What an incredible spirit!
    The bush is a good idea, and you can give slips to Amy when she moves to her own place as well.
    You can bring him to you just by remembering how it felt to be around him.
    He looks to be a man who would prefer you celebrate his life rather than mourn the end of it. He wants your Nan to be okay. She will need lots of attention after the rituals are over, her routine is so disrupted. My thoughts are with you.

    witchypoo’s last blog post..Part Three of One Hundred Things

  10. Jayna says

    I’m deeply sorry for your loss. You and your family will be in my prayers for comfort and healing in this sad time.

    Jayna’s last blog post..Oh, It Gets Better

  11. Lou says

    I am so saddened to hear of your loss. He must have been a remarkable man. Look at you. Look at your Mum. We all owe him a lot.

    Lou’s last blog post..It is Done!

  12. alejna says

    I’m so sorry for your loss. He sounds like a wonderful man. Thank you for sharing your fond memories of him.

    alejna’s last blog post..rats!

  13. Burgh Baby's Mom says

    Sorry for your loss.

    *hugs*

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  14. Candy says

    He looks so vibrant in your pictures. What a great loss this must be. My condolences.

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  15. Tasina says

    What a sad day it’s been all around…lots of sadness on many blogs. I’m so sorry for your loss. It is nice that you were able to spend time during the holidays. *big hug*

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  16. Old Knudsen says

    He sounds like a real Greenman with a strong spirit, I’m sorry for your loss.

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  17. badness jones says

    Ah honey. I’m so so sorry for your loss. He looks like a wonderful man. My granddad died when I was 16 and I still miss him. I’ll be thinking of you and your family and your Nan. Big hugs.

    badness jones’s last blog post..Too Much Information – My 101st Post!

  18. Angela says

    Oh, so sorry to hear!
    You and your family are in my thoughts!

    Thank you for sharing the wonderful photos!

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  19. Just a mom says

    I am so sorry for your loss he looks like a great grandfather. I had one of those too. ((HUGS))

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  20. Sandy (Momisodes) says

    Veronica, I’m so very sorry for your loss. He really must have been remarkable to have such a special place in your heart….My thoughts are with you and your family.

    *hugs*

    Sandy (Momisodes)’s last blog post..Love or Redemption?

  21. Marylin says

    Oh I’m so sorry sweety. All my love to you and your family. xx

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  22. talina says

    Sorry hun… Loosing someone is hard but it’s so great to keep the wonderful memories alive. You photos of him are wonderful and make him appear very full of life and happy.

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  23. Marie says

    You are the fourth blogger I read who had lost someone this week. :(

    Marie’s last blog post..One Tough Cookie

  24. Stacey says

    I am so very sorry. It must be devastating for you. I love the pictures, though; he seems like he was such a wonderful, spirited man. I will pray for you.

    Stacey’s last blog post..Life has it’s downs.

  25. Tiffany says

    Oh Veronica,
    I am so sad for you. There really are no words.
    He must have been so proud of you.
    Your tribute speaks volumes.

    Hugs

    Tiffany’s last blog post..Five things I have learnt today about toothpaste.

  26. Tara says

    Oh Veronica, I’m so sorry! I got all teary reading your post – very moving. You sound like an excellent great granddaughter – and how lucky you were able to cultivate such a relationship with him. Hugs!

    Tara’s last blog post..7 Feb health update

  27. julie says

    I’m so sorry. I think that’s a great photo of him playing cricket, and great memories you have. I will be thinking of you and hoping you and your family find comfort in your memories and each other.

    julie’s last blog post..Whoa. I am confused…

  28. LunaNik says

    I’m so sorry for your lose.

    ((hugs))

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  29. river says

    Looking at those pictures I can see he was a wonderful man. He’ll never really be gone as long as you have your memories and photos. Give your Nan an extra hug from me.

  30. Audra Marie says

    I’m so sorry for your loss. :(

  31. Leslie says

    Veronica, I’m so sorry. Your blog post and photos are a lovely tribute to him. I’m thinking of you and your family.

    Leslie’s last blog post..It Has Been Said That Pregnancy Hormones Can Make You Desirious Of Sexual Activity. Well, So Can Love.

  32. Sarcastic Mom says

    Just now saw this. Tears and prayers for you and your family right now from here.

    Love you.

    Sarcastic Mom’s last blog post..Weekly Winners F3-F9

  33. Laura McIntyre says

    Gosh hun im so sorry for you and your family, your poor Nan and what she must be feeling right now

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  34. Ree says

    Aw, honey, I’m so sorry. I’ve been terribly lax about reading recently, and so I missed this.

    My heartfelt sympathy to you and yours. Grandparents are very special people. {{hugs}}

    Ree’s last blog post..For Now – Until I’m Back Later

  35. Karen MEG says

    I’m so sorry I missed this, Veronica. My condolences to you and your family. What a handsome man, he sounded like a wonderful fellow. This was a beautiful photo tribute to him.

    Karen MEG’s last blog post..Weekly Winners Ed. #11

  36. Angie says

    All the best to you and your family.*hugs*

  37. Momo Fali says

    Those photos are so beautiful. The one of him running made me cry.

    Momo Fali’s last blog post..Why My Best Friend Is Green With Envy

  38. Nan says

    Thank you Von, that was a lovely post, he would have been very proud of you, I know I am.
    I love you heaps

  39. Dawn says

    Aw man. He was RUNNING! Awesome that he was completely himself to the end.

    Thinkin’ of you – and that a chocolate truck crashes in front of your house, leaving you the entire contents.

    Dawn’s last blog post..Filler

  40. Cat says

    I am so sorry to read your sad news… I am only now just catching up on blogs so I’m a few days late but many hugs and lots of cyber chocolate.

    He sounds like he was a wonderful man!

    Cat’s last blog post..Molly

  41. Gemisht says

    Just came here via Kelley’s place and read this. My thoughts are with you and your family. So very sorry to hear of your loss. He looks like an awesome Great Grandfather. Hugs to all. And I love the photo of him leaning on the fence. Without knowing him, it looks like it captures his real spirit. Keep him close to your heart and he will always be with you.

  42. imaginary sarah says

    I’m very sorry for your loss, Veronica. He looks like such a lively spirit! What a great man to have had in your life.

    imaginary sarah’s last blog post..Ride the mechanical bull, get chafed

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