Comments on: Sunday TMI

By: nikki

nikki — Thu, 09 Oct 2008 19:27:33 +0000

Holy crap lady! Take some time for yourself. Relax if you can. (I know that's funny, I read the cocoa mess story.) I wish there was something I could do to help, like kick a stupid doctor's ass. nikkis last blog post..You title this fucking post

By: Bobbi

Bobbi — Wed, 08 Oct 2008 18:16:07 +0000

Unfortunately a lot of doctors have their heads up in the clouds (or up their asses in your case) because they think they are better than everyone else. I would know, I’ve worked for quite a few of them. I’m sorry that happened to you, that’s horrible.
But remember to take time for yourself and your baby and try not to stress too much about it.
Take care of yourself and you’re in my thoughts!

By: Just a mom

Just a mom — Wed, 08 Oct 2008 15:32:02 +0000

just keep your knees closed and your leggs crossed hunny and all will be fine,,, but really CALM DOWN it is ok..... breathe...... rest,,,,, relax..... hang in there Just a moms last blog post..WELL IT IS TUESDAY.... I GOT MY FIX LAST NIGHT.....

By: tiff

tiff — Wed, 08 Oct 2008 05:32:54 +0000

Okay, V,

don’t get me started. Firstly, no one has the right to treat you differently because you are young in their eyes. That is just judgemental and well, wrong.

Look at all the polies who are promoting having your kids ‘young’ now because of all the issues with the over thirties and infertility.

Yes they are.

Next, any bleeding should be treated with care. Did they test for UTI? Even though you had lots of bleeding at the beginning and things look good, they should still do all the proper investigations.

Here are some things we think of when there is bleeding:
(sorry TMI) post coital bleed, increased vascular bleed (with exertion like vomiting)placenta, cervical bleed.

Low iron can increase your chances of a bleed antenatally and postnatally.

I’m so sorry that they treated you that way in a really scary situation. It shouldn’t be that way. Ever.

I’m glad the midwife was nice because you certainly didn’t deserve to be treated the way you were.

I hope it settles down for you soon and that you are able to rest.

tiffs last blog post..It’s the little things.

By: KatStuff

KatStuff — Wed, 08 Oct 2008 03:14:30 +0000

Ugh. What a random group of rotten assholes. Sorry, lovely Veronica, that you had to suffer them. Good that everything looked okay with the ultrasound, but I have to wonder if those assholes know what they are talking about. Did the midwife say anything rational and calming? Those women have seen it all. Rest. That's good advice. NO jumping Amy's. That's great advice. Thinking of you. Willing you to stay horizontal. =) KatStuffs last blog post..The Fine Print

By: Jayne

Jayne — Tue, 07 Oct 2008 22:56:57 +0000

Strict bedrest, feet up, no walking around unless you need to go potty. Go see your GP asap. Get Amy looked after by her grandmas as much as possible until it's investigated properly. Jaynes last blog post..Trivial History October 8

By: Hyphen Mama

Hyphen Mama — Tue, 07 Oct 2008 22:17:08 +0000

“I’m not really that YOUNG… you’re just really OLD.”

“NO. That is NOT what I asked. I asked ……… what is the answer to THAT QUESTION?”

Sorry, I had a little fantasy there where women actually speak their minds and aren’t treated like small, out-of-control children.

Hyphen Mamas last blog post..Wynnie McGinney McGoo

By: Paunchiness

Paunchiness — Tue, 07 Oct 2008 21:21:43 +0000

I've been through that same thing only it didn't end as well as yours. Sorry to hear you had such a horrible time at the hospital. Paunchinesss last blog post..Down We Go!

By: Barbara

Barbara — Tue, 07 Oct 2008 20:46:16 +0000

Bugger - what a crap hospital visit. Try and take it easy - easier said than done I know. I'm thinking of you and have everything crossed. Not sure about this tinterweb speak malarkey but this worked with your mum so here goes (((hugs))) Barbaras last blog post..281/366 - Busy

By: Marylin

Marylin — Tue, 07 Oct 2008 18:12:08 +0000

Oh honey, try to take it easy ok? Thank goodness for families who are able to help out! Marylins last blog post..Hand pron, and my handsome hubby.