Author: Veronica

  • Blog For Choice

    Blog for Choice Day

    Like always, I run a day ahead and therefore a day behind of the blogosphere. Yesterday, 22nd January was Blog for Choice day. Go ahead, Google it. I am sure you will find a bunch of posts about it. It probably doesn’t help that I am posting this at 11pm on the 23rd. I am disorganised okay?

    I am firmly pro-choice, even though I have never had to make that decision, the hardest decision some women have had to make, because at the end of the day, it is MY life and MY body. I want the right to have MY say over what happens to it.

    When I was 15, I sat on the phone to my friend and listened to her cry as she recounted her experiences to me. She was 14.

    FOURTEEN for goodness sakes.

    She found out she was pregnant a week after she and her boyfriend broke up.

    She made the hard decisions alone.

    Went to the clinic alone.

    And came home, alone.

    She rang me in her aloneness, to cry on my shoulder, even though we were thousands of kilometres apart.

    Nothing I could have said or done would have made that choice easier for her. But in the end, that is all she needed.

    She needed a choice.

    Each woman deserves the right to choose, depending on her own morals, depending on her own unique circumstances, what happens to her. No one should be allowed to take that right away.

    What if she was 12?

    What if it was unconsensual?

    What if it was YOUR daughter in that situation? Wouldn’t you want to be able to give her a choice?

    I know I am not in the US and I am hoping like hell that Australia never tries to take my right to choose away. So instead, I am writing this in support of all my friends in the US whom, without this movement, may one day find themselves, or their daughters in a positions where there are no choices.

    And that would suck.

  • Something I Never Thought I’d Have To Say

    “NO! DON’T PUT YOUR FINGER IN HER CRACK”

    ~ Said to Amy about a lizard hiding in the crack between the house and the path.

    Added 2 seconds later?

    “You don’t know what could’ve been in there.”

  • The THING! You Know, That One That Makes Us Cringe. ***UPDATED

    It doesn’t rain, but it pours.

    Thankyou all for the lovely comments on my last post. My boob is hardly sore at all now and I am feeling human again. Wonderful things these antibiotics.

    However, this morning I discovered that THING that is the bane of mothers lives everywhere.

    That THING that causes blogger mother especially to cringe and count the amount of hours they now won’t have left for blogging.

    That THING that makes for a shitload of work and washing, all needing doing before bedtime.

    I discovered headlice.

    I got one louse out of Amy’s hair and two out of mine. Inspection of Amy’s hair shows no eggs that I can see, and when Nathan looked through my hair, he didn’t find any eggs either. (But then, he didn’t really know what he was looking for).

    I have combed my hair, I have conditioner-ed (is that a word? To bad, ’tis now) my hair and combed it through. For AAAAAAAAAAGES and found no more bugs.

    Bugs and hair aside, do you have any IDEA the amount of washing you have to do when you strip THREE beds? Yes, three, Amy sleeps in a cot/single bed together remember?

    Lots of washing.

    Lots and lots of freaking washing. ESPECIALLY when the small one won’t sleep on just a plain sheet. No, she needs a fluffy blanket underneath her sheet and one on topof her sheets, for her cheek to rest in because they are SOFT.

    I got 2 machine loads of bedding just out of Amy’s bedroom. Remembering that I have a 7kg washer. *sigh*

    A lot of washing.

    Thank god I didn’t find more than one louse in Amy’s hair. Can anyone imagine trying to hold down a Toddler so that you can comb their hair out, over and over again?

    Not my idea of a fun time.

    The only place I can think of, where I may have had some small contact with children, was the Doctors surgery on Sunday. All their chairs are cloth covered so I think I may have picked up a louse there. It is the only thing I can think of, because no one else I have seen recently has headlice.

    (Yes I do know this, I have rung everyone)

    However the combing will continue until my hair falls out I am satisfied that no nits could POSSIBLY remain.

    Even if that means sitting on Amy while I comb her hair twice a day.

    **UPDATED: Thankyou so much to Jenty, who has nominated my blog for the bloggers choice awards.

    My site was nominated for Best Parenting Blog! My site was nominated for Hottest Mommy Blogger!

    Now I’m going to be a vote whore and ask you to pretty pretty please go and vote for me. Please? With cherries and whipped cream and whatever else floats your boat. Please?

  • Not Really Together

    I have been feeling a little fluey and off colour for a few days, but yesterday it hit me like a ton of bricks, along with an excruciatingly sore breast.

    My Mum took me to the after hours doctor while Nat looked after Amy and joy of joys, mastitis was diagnosed.

    I’m still not feeling 100%, like walking and chasing the toddler isn’t fun or easy, but I am a bit better than yesterday. As long as I don’t have to stand up, or move my right arm.

    Or think too hard.

    I have antibiotics and Amy is feeding well from the sore side (even though it hurts like a bastard).

    So, knowing how sick I am, when Amy was being quite quiet in the kitchen this morning, I was happy. She wasn’t that deathly silence that signifies trouble, just a lovely quietness that was a break from the constant whining we have been having because EGADS! Mummy isn’t playing with me RIGHT NOW!

    Eventually she wandered back over to me.

    Complete with four lolly snakes in her hand, one in her hair and three stuck to her top.

    Hmmmm, she had stretched REEEEEALLY high and managed to get the open packet of snakes out of the cupboard.

    Fun!

    I had to rescue all the non-chewed snakes and put them back away. So now I have a sticky, sugar hyped, whining Toddler running around.

    I want to go back to bed.

  • Weekly Winners

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    Everything is dying.

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    However, everything looks so pretty because it drizzled overnight. Not much, but enough to make it smell amazing and make me want to take photos. The green patch you can see? That is where my grey water run off is.

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    Everything is still grey and chilly. You’d never believe it is the middle of summer. I am loving it.

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    Amy has new gumboots. She thinks they are fantastic. Thankyou Mum.

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    She does love the shoes.

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    The apples on my apple tree were still wet from the drizzle. I have been watering them with the bath water so that they didn’t die. Hopefully we can get some ripe fruit before we move out of here, I would hate to have the possums eat the apples.

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    I had to throw this one in here. You know you’re jealous right? He also cleans the bathroom and he does all the mopping. I love him and no! you can’t have him.

    See more weekly winners here.