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A few weeks ago, I applied to 93.6 ABC Radio for a chance to be a micro-critic at the upcoming festival of art and music – MONA FOMA (Mueseum of Old and New Art, Festival of Music and Art).

I’d thought about it and figured that it wouldn’t hurt to apply, I was incredibly interested in a lot of what they were doing and already had plans to see Grinderman and Neil Gaiman and Amanda Palmer.

I got a phone call this morning – I was selected to be one of the micro-critics. I get free tickets to the ticketed events and to attend as much as possible of the free stuff and then tell everyone what I think on twitter.

You guys, I am so excited. I’ve got to head down and give an interview on the radio with the other micro-critics later this week, my tweets will be getting read out on the radio during the festival and it’s all just very cool.

There are some amazing people coming to Tassie for it and I can’t wait.

I’m going to be so busy for the week of the festival and I’m planning on dragging Frogpondsrock around to as much as possible (helps that she is my driver), while Nat stays home with the children.

I’m so excited that even falling on an electric fence, while standing in a puddle with wet shoes couldn’t make me grumpy. A perpetually breaking hose pipe didn’t bother me.  Even scrubbing water troughs and baths filled with algae didn’t upset me (although, totally not my favourite job – can I run a competition to allow someone else to scrub the duck water out for me?).

Thankyou to ABC Radio for offering this chance too. I’m getting to work with some pretty cool people (I can’t name the other micro-critics until everyone has confirmed, but I have been cleared to say I’ve been chosen) that I like a lot.

And thanks even more to Stephen Estcourt, because without his gift of an iPhone, I wouldn’t have been able to apply!

Now ‘scuse me, I’m off to continue dancing around the house.

I’m staying well away from electric fences however.

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Utter disgust and reclaiming some pride.

by Veronica on December 22, 2010

in Blogging, Soapbox

When a boat crashed into the rocks on Christmas Island last week, I watched the news reports come in and cried. All those families torn apart. They’d gone through so much to get to Australia, to somewhere where they would hopefully be able to find a new life and with one big wave, that hope was dashed.

Parents held their babies up above the water, screaming for help, while residents of the Island threw life jackets, only to watch the life jackets torn away and the babies drown. So much floating debris, that they couldn’t see what was wood and what was human anymore.

The death toll is expected to rise as high as 50, with exact numbers not being known. Some bodies won’t be recovered.

Three children were left orphaned. Can you imagine that? Arriving in a new land, a land that your parents have likely promised will be free of death, only to have your parents drown, leaving you alone in a foreign country. Those children are in the Christmas Island Detention Centre now, not knowing their fate. There are over 150 children locked up there.

I’ve been reading the news reports and stupidly, some of the comments below them. To the person who declared ‘We don’t want them here’, I’d like to know: Where did your family come from that you can afford to be so arrogant about the arrival of families who need our help? There is a very good chance they didn’t want to be here either, however their need to be here outweighs everything.

Thinking about it, would you want to leave your home, your extended family, your country and your culture on a whim, forever? No. It takes some major trauma to have to decide that a foreign country is your only hope. That’s why they’re asylum seekers, not holiday makers.

We don’t know their stories, or their horror. We don’t know what they were fleeing from. To trust their lives and the lives of their family to a people smuggler and boat that, at the end of the day, didn’t hold up so well, somehow I’d hedge a bet that it wasn’t rising rates and taxes that forced them here.

I am ashamed that in the wake of this tragedy, our politicians are using it as a stone to throw at each other, the ‘Boat People’ stone. It isn’t constructive to throw rocks and portion blame at this time, not when you could be using your collective powers to organise a better solution, a plan so that this doesn’t happen again. A decisive agreement on what should happen once they’re here, that is in the best interest of these human beings, not in the best interest of your polls.

Screeching at the cameras that you will ‘STOP THE BOATS’ is equally unproductive. By all accounts, the amount of asylum seekers who have made it to Australian shores this year aren’t in danger of flooding us out of our own country, like some people fear. “Boat people” has turned into a general term thrown around as a fear mongering tool that is handy for point scoring.

It makes me wonder if the politicians have forgotten that at the heart of this aren’t people with fangs and giant claws, but babies and mothers. Fathers holding their daughters, begging for them to be saved and now, orphans. They are families who are in search of a better life, one without starvation, or murder on the horizon. Not monsters who need to be stopped.

In a shining beacon of hope however, I’ve gotten to watch Louisa move heaven and earth to get gifts to the children incarcerated on Christmas Island. She’s organised for the parcel to make its way onto a Virgin Blue flight and clear customs quickly, in time for Christmas morning.

Louisa has helped me feel less ashamed to be Australian today. With her idea and the blogospheres support, amazing things have happened in the last few days. Blogging has, yet again, reminded me about the best in people, instead of showing me the worst in them.

So, thank you, to every single person who donated, who shared the love and who helped out. You people are amazing.

And to our politicians, maybe you should be looking at the outpouring of love coming from this community and realising that not all Australians are scared of The Boat People monsters that you created. Most Australians are sympathetic and think that they deserve to be here, in this so called Lucky Country.

Maybe you can see that too.

One day.

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Remember the greenhouse?

Well, it held up mostly brilliantly, until this morning. Obviously the holiday stress has been getting to it, because it tried to fly away this morning. Unfortunately, greenhouses built out of bendy metal poles aren’t designed for flying and instead it flopped down, 6 inches away from where it started, slightly bent and a little worse for wear. Also lucky, it tried to fly away while I was checking my morning emails, so I spotted it and had it pinned back down quite quickly.

An hour later, it tried to fly again, this time uprooting itself from the bottom poles in order to do so. A few bags of potting mix, some more tape and some ingeniousness, and it was stuck back down. Again.

The weather today has been getting progressively worse, colder and windier. Certainly a day for hiding inside with hot chocolate, not a day for preventing flying greenhouses, because you guessed it, it tried to fly again.

More successful than the first two attempts, this time it flew a good three feet in the air, before collapsing back down with a giant thud, trying again and pulling all of the support beams out.

I tried to fix it, I really did. But once I made my way into the internals of the flying greenhouse, it tried to impale me, rather viciously. The wind tore the plastic out of my grip, metal poles were flying everywhere and after being beaten by a flying pole and worrying about my internal organs, I bailed out.

Really, can you blame me?

It’s still tied down, so really, it’s not doing anything other than flopping around like a fish on the end of a line and occasionally trying to murder me when I get too close.

I was already short on Christmas spirit before the assassination attempt. A nasty flu virus that turned into a chest infection, coupled with a period that has lasted almost 5 weeks now (despite me being on the pill) and a course of prednisone to keep me breathing have all conspired to make me grinchy.
Really really grinchy.

But! It seems the blogosphere isn’t half as grinchy as I am, because we’ve managed to raise an extraordinary amount of money to send presents to the children stuck in detention on Christmas Island.

The amazing Louisa decided that she wanted to send things and she mobilised the blogsphere and our various sponsors into helping. As I write, she has almost made the amount of money needed to courier the gifts to the detention centre and any extra money donated will be spent on gifts to add to the parcels.

I even managed to get Cal Wilson to tweet about it.

If there is any chance you can donate, or if you’re in Melbourne, get gifts to Louisa to be sent, then please, go and check out her blog for how to do that.

And hopefully, by the time I’ve pressed publish, my inner grinch will have been tamed with something that isn’t a metal bar trying to stab me. I think the Universe is telling me something.

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Giving toddlers back some power.

by Veronica on December 13, 2010

in Sponsored Posts

This post sponsored by The Mother Media

When my daughter was born and we were living in the suburbs, I used to see a lot of mothers with jogger prams, running. Running was never my thing and I used to trudge from Dynnyrne, all the way down into Hobart with Amy in the pram, once a week at least.

I imagine if we’d stayed living in the suburbs, we would have kept walking all over the country side.

However, we moved out into the rural areas of Tasmania, where I spent hours every day, walking to the corner of the sealed road, along my gravel road, wishing for Amy to fall asleep. Kilometres of walking, designed to stop her screaming and give me some peace.

I was rather fit.

A few years on and we’re living even further out in the rural areas, with land and lots of poultry. Our roads are unsuitable for walking; a 110kmph highway runs along my front fence and there is no real verge for walking on.

Because we’ve got pasture and a giant flat area for Amy to play in, for this Christmas, we bought her a bike. She doesn’t know it yet, obviously, but part of the reason her father has been whipper snipping for hours each day, is so that the grass is short enough for learning to ride. He’s leaving some long parts and we’re going to create ‘bike tracks’ for the kids.

With Amy getting a bike, we needed something equally fun for Isaac and a trike was what we decided on. I hadn’t gotten around to buying one yet, luckily, because the opportunity to review one came up.

The Smart-Trike 4-in-1 has some pretty amazing specs. It adjusts for a baby as young as 6 months to ride and recline (oh the sleeping possibilities! do you know how much I would have loved one of these when Amy was a baby?) all the way up to a 24+ month old to ride alone. Having a clutch means that Isaac can pedal as much as he likes and yet, we only move at my speed.

Best. Idea. Ever.

I’ve not let Isaac ride it yet, in fact, neither child knows about it. But that doesn’t matter, because this tricycle? It’s AWESOME. I wish I’d had it for him 12 months ago when he decided that he absolutely NO WAY was NOT letting me put him in a pram.

This has caused some issues, as you can imagine.

Supermarketing is a pain in the arse and he bolts at the slightest chance of freedom.

I think this tricycle is going to change all that.

We  don’t have footpaths, so when we’re at home I’ll take the handle off and let him ride around, like an older child.

But you can bet your socks that I’ll be putting the handle back on and letting him ride around the shops, while he’s strapped in, so he can’t bolt.

I figure it’s only fair, that he’s given a chance to run over all the adults who spend their time glaring at his screaming meltdowns, or pushing past him.

The Smart-Trike. Giving toddlers back some power.

Well, some power that doesn’t involve screaming tantrums.

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One line bios.

by Veronica on December 8, 2010

in Blogging

Anna made me think about One Line Bios and now I sort of hate her for it, because I can’t get it out of my head.

Sleepless Nights is complex and always has been. That’s okay, because everything I post falls under the umbrella of mummyblogging anyway, even when it’s about hatching a duck egg in my bra, or cutting the heads off my poultry and cooking them (the poultry, not the heads. Heads aren’t my thing). I’ve been trying to think how I’d sum myself up in one line – you know, that one line you use to describe me to other bloggers and they know who you’re talking about immediately. They might not remember my blog name, or my face, but they’d remember my story.

That’s in an ideal world of course.

All the ‘big’ bloggers, they’ve got their thing. Anissa had a stroke. Heathers daughter died, sadly. Her Bad Mother is all philosophical (and don’t forget the cupcakes) and Mr Lady is just plain funny – you can’t forget a blog called Whiskey in my Sippy Cup. These things that don’t define us necessarily, but are how we’re remembered in the blogosphere.

Because Sleepless Nights is so eclectic, I think I’m missing my thing. Is it duck raising? I mean, the ducklings are pretty cute, but it’s not all ducklings, all the time.

The kids are hard work, but I’m wary of their privacy, especially as Amy takes the steps out into the big world of School in February. She might drive me crazy sometimes (I’m writing this at the expense of a roll of aluminium foil), but some stories aren’t mine to tell. Maybe sharing her Aspergers journey is helpful, but I’m not entirely sure how to blog about it constructively, without it turning into a series of posts about behaviours that leave me pulling my hair out.

It could be about Isaac and his slide into non-verbal that we’re hoping to halt. Autism though, that’s a hard one. I’ve only got so much energy for squeezing heartbreak out of my fingertips before I can’t think about it anymore. We’re not even sure he’s autistic, his meltdowns, sensory issues and language development suggests he is, but his social skills confuse everyone. He likes to refer back and smile. He masks his behaviours when we’re out – except for the screaming meltdowns – and then spends an hour hiding his face on the couch afterwards.

Like I said. Some stories aren’t mine to tell.

It could be Ehlers Danlos and my rapidly falling apart body. All the dislocations and the exhaustion. The insomnia and brokenness. The fight against medical professionals to be taken seriously and treated with respect.

Maybe I’m just that Tasmanian blogger.

A one line bio is hard to come up with, probably because as humans, we’re always going to be more than one line.

I definitely agree with Anna though, a one line bio, a decent schtick, it helps make your blog memorable.

We all need our one line, our thing. That thing that makes us different from the other blogs.

The problem is how to find it, and exploit it.

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What do you think my one line bio is? What keeps you coming back?

More to the point, what do you think your one line bio is?

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